Fuck you, Mum. I know you’re in the country because you asked my stepdad to ask me if we could meet up (that’s a resounding fucking no). From now on he won’t be passing your messages onto me because I am not fucking interested.

Now my daughter – your first grandchild – you haven’t even told her you’re in the country again, much less asked whether she’d like to meet up. How DARE you. She has been shown time and time again that she doesn’t matter, doesn’t count, isn’t important, isn’t valuable, and I am SO incandescent with rage that you’re continuing to treat her like she isn’t worth your time. She is an amazing, loving, kind, caring, funny, and incredibly loyal young woman, and she deserves to have a family that makes a fucking effort to involve and include her.

I may not be in contact with you, and that’s for my own reasons and between you and I, but acting like you’ve completely forgotten she exists is absolutely unforgivable. I wasn’t always in a position to advocate for her but I sure as shit am now, and your behaviour is disgusting and I hope you go to the grave feeling the shame and guilt that you absolutely deserve to be tortured with for this. I am so angry I don’t ever, ever want to speak to you again.

Pull your head out of your arse and DO BETTER BY YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN. Fucks sake.